India, May 31 -- Everyone's always on the lookout for red flags in their dates or partners. But let's be real, if everyone's got an innate red flag radar, calling out the toxic behaviours, then who's actually the red flag? It might be a punch in the gut, but sometimes it may just be you. Whether you realise it or not, you may be unknowingly brushing them off. But self-awareness can help you overcome your blind spots.

Jon Dabach, Relationship coach, who regularly shares tips on dating and relationships, took to Instagram on 30 May to drop 8 signs you are the problem in the relationship, and not the other way round.

Here are the 8 signs from the relationship coach shared that may help you better introspect on your role and dynamics in the...