India, June 20 -- Pointing fingers in a relationship, trying to decide whose fault it is that the ship is sinking, is easy. But the hard part is asking the right questions, not to your partner, but to yourself. Questions like 'Could I be the problem in the relationship?' may jolt the best of us, since there's an innate predisposition to always see oneself in the best light, with the generous rationalisation of 'I can do no wrong.'

Maybe the answer to saving the relationship is to open your eyes and look inwards. Relationship expert Jeff Guenther who frequently shares relationship and dating takeaways on his profile, shared on June 19, four ways that tell you are the problem in the relationship.

Here are the 4 things shared by Jeff Guent...