India, Feb. 9 -- Help is valuable and appreciated, but it should never be imposed. Even with assurances that everything is under control, stepping in without consent can create tension in a relationship and undermine trust.

A similar, very personal situation was shared by a user on the subreddit AITAH, where the husband thought he was being helpful, but his actions caused tension in the marriage and made the situation harder for the wife.

The OP was responsible for running the household entirely on her own, from cooking, cleaning, caring for a 4-year-old, and handling the 5-month old's night feedings. Her husband, meanwhile, was looking for jobs, so his involvement in daily chores was minimal. Despite this, she managed to keep the house...