Why gossiping together might just make couples happier
India, Aug. 17 -- G
ossiping isn't just something friends do-couples do it too, and it's not always meaningless chatter or nosiness. In fact, gossiping with your significant other (or a situationship works too!) has surprising benefits.
A study from the University of California, Riverside, published in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, found that couples who gossip tend to have stronger bonds.
Contrary to popular belief, gossip isn't just badmouthing others. Researchers define gossip as talking about people who aren't present, which can be positive, neutral, or negative.
The study revealed that couples spend nearly 38 minutes a day gossiping-about 14% of their daily conversations. Importantly, this doesn't mean negative talk; couples who gossip, including woman-woman pairs, reported greater happiness and stronger relationships.
What's behind this? Researchers suggest gossip helps couples feel connected and "on the same page," fostering trust and emotional security. By sharing engaging stories and personal thoughts, partners silently communicate, "I trust you with this." This exchange builds closeness and can improve mood, as venting often brings relief.
In this way, gossiping may be a key ingredient in a healthy relationship....
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