India, Dec. 7 -- Infidelity does not always begin with a dramatic affair or a secret message - it often takes root in moments most couples barely notice. And while the debate over whether men or women are the "bigger cheaters" continues online, the answers lie with those who see the real stories unfold behind closed doors. James Joseph Sexton, a New York-based divorce and family law attorney, says the truth about who cheats more is far more surprising than most couples expect. According to Sexton: "Men cheat more, but women cheat better. Women go big or go home. Men just do dumb sh*t a lot of the time." He adds, "A dalliance is fooling around; an affair is full-on." Sexton says: "Men and women approach cheating differently. Men ask, 'Did you have sex with him?' Women ask, 'Do you love her?' Men worry about territory, women about emotional replacement. It shows our biases in marriage." Both cheat "a lot," but "men get caught more; women hide it better."...