India, June 8 -- We're all quick to spot relationship red flags in others, but what if you're the red flag? Relationship coach Jon Dabach shares eight signs on Instagram to help you reflect on your role in a romantic relationship. 1. You always need to win the argument 2. You dismiss your partner's feelings as overreactions 3. You rarely apologise, and if you do, it's usually followed by a 'but' 4. You give the silent treatment instead of addressing the conflict 5. You criticise instead of offering constructive feedback 6. You expect your partner to read your mind 7. You bring up the past to score points in the present 8. You blame everything on your partner's faults without examining your own It's natural to get defensive, as all we want to see ourselves in a good light. However, if you spot a red flag in yourself, take it as a chance to grow.Jon says, "Self-awareness isn't shame, it's your first step towards real change. Relationships don't need perfect people, they need honest ones willing to grow."...