India, April 16 -- Slow kisses, long cuddles, whispered jokes or simply being close to someone you love, these moments might matter more than we think. While many assume the highlight of sex is the orgasm, a new study suggests there's so much more that people value in intimacy.

Published in the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy, the study surveyed nearly 3,000 adults across the US to find out what they truly love most about sex with their partner. Surprisingly, only 231 people pointed to orgasms as the best part, hinting that modern relationships may be redefining what "good sex" really means. (Also read: Do you mirror your partner's mood to the point of being emotionally drained? Expert says why it happens )

Another indicator that sex i...