India, Nov. 21 -- It started with friends' birthdays and "very important" meetings. And now look at us - scheduling everything in our online calendars. Morning moka-pot rituals labelled orange, journaling sessions in pink, Hinge dates in blue, and Sunday brunches in yellow. We even block time to "do the laundry" and "water the plants". Calendar creep has invaded both work and personal life. At this point, are you even a couple if your online schedules aren't synced, colour-coded, and basically flirting with each other on their own?

For many of us, calendaring feels like control. A small win against burnout. We hope that planning will lighten the mental load, make the insurmountable a little manageable. But hyper-mapping every hour on Goo...