India, Aug. 17 -- R Madhavan was recently seen in Aap Jaisa Koi, where he played a man in his 40s trying to find his bride. The film shed light on age-related insecurities that men face, and the actor admits having gone through some insecurities in real life too as he aged. He says, "One of the first times you get hit about your age is when your kids' friends start calling you uncle. It hits you by shock but then you have to come to terms with it."

The 55-year-old adds that ageing impacts his work choices too. "When you are doing movies, you realise that you have to be careful in the choice of heroines, because even though they still want to work with you, it looks like the actor is having fun on the pretext of the movie. People feel ye ...