India, May 28 -- What makes a relationship last longer? According to the couples therapist Jeff Guenther, it is one single habit that makes your relationship feel safe and satisfying.

In an Instagram video posted on April 17, Jeff stressed that it is not 'weekly date nights, having the same attachment style, or knowing each other's love languages' that makes a relationship work and last long. Rather, per the decades of research from the Gottmans and his own experience as a couples therapist of 20 years, the biggest game changer in relationships is 'something you can start doing now until forever: turning towards bids for connection'.

According to the couple's therapist, it's any tiny moment your partner tries to get your attention, your...