India, Feb. 23 -- Ben Affleck's daughter, Violet Affleck, is reportedly distancing herself from once-fond Jennifer Lopez after feeling she had been just a "pawn" in Bennifer's divorce.

"Violet felt like she was used as a pawn so to speak during her dad's split from JLo," a source told Daily Mail.

"Jen supported her daughter getting close to the singer because she always puts her children first. But as the divorce loomed, the fact that Violet was hanging out with JLo and wearing her clothes was odd to the family. So too was Lynda Lopez visiting Violet at college," the source explained.

Lopez shares 16-year-old twins, Max and Emme, with ex-husband Marc Anthony, while Affleck co-parents his three children-Violet Anne, 19, Fin, 16, and Sam...