Nigeria, Sept. 14 -- See ehn, if you're using a ring to propose marriage to someone's daughter, it is mandatory that you kneel down. Yes, kneel. Stay on your knees until the ritual is complete. Kneeling is not optional in the oyibo tradition of proposing, it is the heart of it. The ring is only half the story, the posture is the soul. If you refuse to kneel, don't borrow oyibo culture halfway. Propose the way your ancestors did. Don't hide under convenience and call it modern. We live in a confused generation neither here nor there. We copy cultures but edit them to suit our pride. We adopt the flashy part, discard the humbling part, and then call it love. But love without humility is a ticking time bomb. If a man cannot bend his knees to...