Nigeria, June 8 -- In a society where Nigerian men often point fingers at women for being gold diggers, a closer look at recent trends suggests that the male gender may be equally - if not more - complicit in the quest for advantageous love. We are fast becoming a society where character takes a back seat, and personalities - or rather, perks - are the new currency of attraction.

Gone are the days when men prided themselves on being providers, commanding respect through economic leadership. Now, many consider themselves lucky if they can secure a woman of means, flipping the traditional script on its head. This shifting paradigm isn't just about survival; it's about the thrill of social elevation - marrying "above" has become the ultimat...