Srinagar, Nov. 22 -- Every time I enter a public place in Kashmir, a familiar worry comes to mind: will I find a restroom I can actually use?

This question follows me everywhere, from hospitals to parks, from trains to shrines.

A toilet is a simple space. It shapes how safe, healthy, and respected people feel in any setting.

In my homeland, this basic need still feels like a promise waiting to be kept.

Government reports talk about new toilets under different schemes. Numbers look good and inaugurations get attention. The reality changes when you open the door.

Many washrooms have no water or remain locked. Cleaning happens once in a while. Responsibility fades soon after the ribbon-cutting.

The progress we read about does not mat...