Nigeria, Jan. 16 -- In every society, elites exist in various forms. Many live outside their home state but still want to make their presence felt back home. For some, being an elite means having influence - leading people and shaping their thoughts through gifts and connections. This is often what it takes to be considered a "big man" or "big woman."

Philanthropy, however, is not always about pure intentions. Sometimes, it's a way to feel important or gain recognition. This is why people often choose easy, visible actions that bring quick praise, even if they don't truly help those they aim to support. Genuine charity, on the other hand, often goes unnoticed. It's more challenging but can make a more significant difference, like the bib...