Kuala Lampur, March 26 -- Naturally, as Hari Raya approaches, we feel the adrenaline rush gushing through our nervous bodies and anxious minds. How could it not? It's the most anticipated celebration of the year, a time to reconnect with loved ones and bask in the festive spirit.

But as excitement builds, tension follows. Manners often get lost in the hustle and bustle, especially in a society where we're raised to be reserved and avoid friction.

As we prepare to open our doors to the rare sight of distant relatives with limited knowledge of our state of mind, certain mental preparations need to be considered so the week can be wrapped up on a pleasant note.

Hari Raya is, at its core, about forgiveness. After a month of spiritual rejuv...