Kuala Lampur, May 22 -- We all have a room in our minds where the past lives.

Some call it memory, others call it baggage. It's filled with faded moments - some precious, some painful. The successes we revisit for confidence. The failures we replay, often far too much. And while that room can hold valuable lessons, it's not where we're meant to live.

The trouble begins when we start hanging up curtains in that room. Rearranging the furniture. Calling it home.

There's a line I often reflect on: Treat the past as a separate room you can visit, but don't live there. Because the truth is, the past has no power over us - unless we give it the keys.

Now, this doesn't mean we ignore history or pretend our scars don't exist. Quite the opposit...