Reverse catfishing: A new dating trend to watch out for
India, July 4 -- In the age of filtered photos and feeds, where standing out is the goal, a new dating trend making waves is reverse catfishing. Unlike traditional catfishing, where people deceive others by appearing more attractive or successful online, this trend is about underplaying your appeal. From dressing down to skipping luxury items, it's about being "low-key" on purpose.
"Reverse catfishing is still very new," says Ravi Mittal, founder and CEO of a dating app, adding, "We think it's a love letter to emotional intelligence. Who, other than an emotionally sorted and extremely secure person, would dare to play it down on purpose? It shows that young daters are more interested in finding the right match than impressing the wrong one."
This understated approach is reportedly gaining traction among millennials and Gen Z, especially those who've grown disillusioned by the swipe-left culture that often rewards only surface-level charm.
For some, reverse catfishing is a form of digital detox from the pressure of being 'Insta-perfect'. For others, it's a litmus test for genuine interest.
But the concept isn't exactly new. Dating coach Pratik Jain points out that "people from high-status backgrounds - athletes, heirs, or those from influential families - have long downplayed their wealth or looks to attract partners who see them for who they really are."
He adds that while this move can be sincere, it also straddles a thin manipulative line. "Imagine how the other person might feel when you show up to the date looking far better than your photos? It creates an instant dopamine hit and heighten attraction artificially."
So, is reverse catfishing romantic or a calculated move? As per the experts, it depends. On one hand, it signals emotional maturity and self-assurance - traits many daters value over six-pack abs or luxury cars. On the other, it can backfire if the disparity between online and offline personas feels jarring....
To read the full article or to get the complete feed from this publication, please
Contact Us.