Pakistan, July 27 -- Someone recently asked me this thoughtful question after reading my morning article***: "Chasing external markers of success can leave us feeling empty. Purpose is the driver, and having a great community is a true gift. It's inspiring to hear about your shift from seeking applause to finding joy in creation. I wonder what practices shifted for you as well?" It struck a chord. And it made me reflect-deeply. So here's my honest answer. A story. One part is personal, one part is philosophical, and-hopefully-a small dose of practical insight for anyone still chasing applause. Backstage at the Ego Circus Picture me, 16, in Paris, strutting like I owned the world-briefcase in hand, bad haircut, big dreams. I wanted it all....