Uganda, Dec. 1 -- We are Muslim and I am the second wife. My husband and I have two children while he has one child with his first wife who sometimes comes to my house to play with my children. I am okay with this but his first wife is not. She thinks I am trying to steal his son's affection and get her out of the picture. She also keeps calling and sending me messages about how she was the first and no matter what my evil plans are, I will not succeed. It seems my husband and his first wife have a problem between them and I am being accused of causing it. Please help. I believe we can live in harmony.

Anonymous

Dear anonymous,

Your belief that you can live in harmony as a family is good and can lead to positive change. Families will u...