Srinagar, June 13 -- In our modern society, the selection of an individual-male or female-for a government post is widely regarded as a mark of high achievement and success. Such appointments, often to prestigious positions, are celebrated with pride by families and communities alike. However, what follows after this achievement sometimes becomes a matter of deep concern and emotional disturbance. I write this article not only as a witness to such behavioral transitions but as someone personally affected and puzzled by them. Let us be honest with ourselves: selection in any prestigious job is, of course, a mix of hard work, merit, and most importantly, luck. And luck-known only by Allah-is the deciding factor in whether or not someone ult...