Kenya, July 19 -- I never thought I would discuss this. However, my experience might perhaps spare another lady from going through what I went through in quiet. Our marriage appeared to be strong, joyful, and normal from the outside. What transpired behind closed doors, however, was another matter. Love wasn't intimacy. It was war.
My spouse and I always had a tough time having intimacy. And not the consenting, passionate sort. It had a mechanical feel. empty. biased. There was no gentleness, no build-up, and no foreplay. All he needs to do is prove himself, exert control, let go, and punish. I became aware of a troubling trend: he would only ask to have intimacy after we had a disagreement. Occasionally, he would start pointless arguments over food or nothing else, and then he would go to bed the next night feeling stern, harsh, and aloof. To read more click here.
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