Kenya, May 30 -- If you have ever cried yourself to sleep asking, "Why does this keep happening to me?" then I understand your feelings. Every man I loved left me or hurt me badly. My first serious boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend.

The next man left after I helped him with school fees and supported him when he had no job. Another one lied to me about being single; he actually had a wife and three kids in another town. This cycle of pain never seemed to stop. My friends called me the one with the worst luck in love.

I tried changing cities, getting rid of negative people in my life, and even taking a break from dating. But just when I thought I had found "the one", he disappeared two weeks before our traditional wedding. No reason, just vanished. I felt like I was cursed.

At that point, I realised it was not just bad luck or poor choices but. Continue Reading

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