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The things that men do but hush up

Tanzania, May 4 -- There is no doubt that we love our wives and girlfriends and would certainly desire to be transparent about our deeds and misdeeds to them. Ideally, this is what is supposed to happ... Read More


Men, women are dying to hear your voice, speak up

Tanzania, April 27 -- While growing up in the village, there was this chap, now deceased, who was a darling to all the girls in the entire village and beyond the river. He would be seen escorting a g... Read More


Ladies, drop dependency syndrome; it is cheap

Tanzania, April 13 -- Over centuries, women have looked upon men for many things. Religion has not been better at this socially unfit behaviour. Indeed, it has perpetuated the notion that women will a... Read More


Begging from your woman is a no-no zone

Tanzania, April 6 -- A man's ego is very important to him. Destroying it at some irreparable level, therefore, becomes the target and obsession of most women. The mangling of a man's ego is faster wh... Read More


You are not rich after 50, so what?

Tanzania, March 30 -- The notion that one should live in opulence, stinking rich by age 45, is a misnomer. The human concept of wealth is so flawed and indeed ephemeral that it would take eons to drum... Read More


Couples can be differently disposed in religion

Tanzania, March 23 -- I remember reading somewhere in psychology books that human beings are products of both nature and nurture. Let me clear the wind for you. Nature because each one of us has a se... Read More


Boys lied through their teeth, it was 'sweet' in the girls' ears

Tanzania, March 9 -- When I see infatuated kids dripping with dramatised affections, my mind takes me back to the days of the yore when love was the way we read it in the cheap Mills and Boon paperbac... Read More


When happiness goes through the window

Tanzania, March 2 -- Oftentimes, we work with hammers and tongs, eking out our lives in this arid world. I said arid because only a few oases of happiness show up throughout one's life. Much of our h... Read More


What if human beings practiced polyandry?

Tanzania, Feb. 17 -- A new word, is it not? It is because, unlike polygamy, it is not often practiced among people we know, and if it is, a paltry 1 percent of them do it. This is where a woman is ma... Read More